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What's your fetish? When it comes to kinks, you might want to learn how to explore fetishes with escorts first. Here's your guide!

A lot more people than you think have sexual fetishes. In fact, one survey says about 75 percent of people have one – whether they talk about it or try to act it out with a partner is another story. 

There are a lot of fetishes out there that cover a wide range. Whether you're into pretending your partner is a living mannequin, or you like wearing a mask during intimacy or being tied up, escorts may have encountered a lot of these kinks with their clients. Chances are they may have experience with one of your fantasies. 

Trying out a fetish with a partner that you see regularly could go one of two ways. While you might be pleasantly surprised by their response, they may also not approve and be rejected. 

Here's how to satisfy your fetishes with escorts the right way. 

Do Some Research First

If you're looking to explore a particular type of kink, make sure you know about the "rules" involved. For example, if you're into BDSM, then you should know the rules and what to do ahead of time. This will help you to understand what to expect, and also allow you to communicate your desires to your escort more accurately. 

At the same time, you might want to inquire ahead of time if the escort of your choice is willing to take part in your fetish. Many escorts are open-minded. However, you don't want to be in a situation where you're going against their wishes. It should be a mutual experience.

You may have a certain look in mind that will best fit your ideal fetish. For example, if you want to pretend you're being naughty with the babysitter or you're pretending you're a patient with a "nurse", then research the women available ahead of time that matches your physical description. 

You might also have a certain experience or destination in mind with an escort that will really get your motor running, so think about that as well when deciding on your escort. 

Ask For Suggestions

Perhaps you're new to exploring your fetishes with an escort, and that's okay. Since escorts deal with a variety of kinks, you might be able to let them guide you and even give you tips about how to get more pleasure out of the experience. 

Some escorts might even allow props like costumes, handcuffs, stilettos, or knee socks (or they might be open to you requesting them.) Even if you think you know everything there is to know about your kink, an escort with experience might prove you wrong and show you some new techniques. Look at it as an educational experience and be open, and it can enhance your fantasies. 

As noted earlier, there are a lot of different fetishes out there, including some more obscure ones that you don't think anyone would be willing to take part in. 

Think about the kinds of things that you're into before meeting your escort. Don't be afraid to share them all for fear of being judged. The escort might help you find a common theme to help you delve even deeper into your fantasies. 

Creating a Safe Space

When it comes to partnering with an escort to explore your fetishes, you don't have to hold back (as long as you're on the same page.) That means you can take all of those scenarios you've only been watching on the screen (or in your head) and apply them to real-life with someone beautiful. 

Whatever you're into, you can clearly communicate what you want without shame or fear of being "exposed". An escort won't go around telling others what you've confessed to them, and they won't judge you for it. You might be surprised to learn that many others have the same fantasies as you, and an escort can help switch up the experience to keep it fresh. 

There are many reasons to choose an escort for some great fetish play – one of them being that there are no expectations and no strings attached! When you act out your fantasies with an escort, there's no chance of anyone getting their feelings hurt or expecting more if it's clear from the beginning. 

Of course, you don't have to stick around to make breakfast the next day or call to see how they're doing. And they're not going to call out your name if they happen to see you in a supermarket. The same can't be said if you attempt to explore your fetishes with a partner that doesn't value discretion as much as an escort. 

Going The Extra Mile

Escorts take pride in making their customers happy, and that sometimes means catering to fetishes you're too ashamed to share with others. As long as it's within reason, an escort will often go out of their way to make the experience pleasant. After all, they'd like to see you again. 

However, keep in mind there are some guidelines to follow for the best experience with an escort, especially for the first contact. That includes appropriate grooming, and demonstrating a level of respect. No matter what your fetish is, both parties should feel safe.

There's no harm in giving a compliment or asking them if they're comfortable either. 

Learn How To Explore Fetishes With Escorts

Chances are you have a fetish of some kind, but there's also a very good chance you haven't had a chance to satisfy it for fear of being judged. 

Trying out fetishes with escorts creates a judgment-free situation where you can live out your deepest fantasies without any shame. You can also be sure that escorts have experience with a wide variety of kinks and could help you explore your own even more deeply. 

To find out more about how to properly explore your fetishes with a classy and experienced escort, contact us today.